I am linking this post up over at Amy's blog. Bloggers from all over have shared about their experience "in waiting" for God's timing in various areas of their lives.. If you need some encouragement, please go check it out! There is something for everyone.
My nephew this week asked me when I was going to get married and have a baby for him to play with. Oh, the sweet innocence of a child. I wish I knew that answer buddy, I really do! But, it is all in God's timing and his timing is perfect.
Lately, I have found myself struggling with this timing. I am 32, single and there are no prospects in sight. I don't doubt God and his plan, but lately my feelings have been hurt on more than one occasion by people in my life who make it seem as if I can fix this status in my life. Family members ask "When are you going to settle down?" or "Don't you want to get married?" At the church I attend, there is no place for someone single. There is a college class, a young married couples class and then adult bible study. Hmm... Not sure where I fit there, so I volunteer in the children's department so I can hide behind my insecurity of not having a "status" that places me in the right class. Lately lunches at work are awkward as I am the only single person and most talk about their families, play dates, couples dinners and the list goes on.
I have really been struggling with the "status" society has placed on those of us who are single. I feel left out and lonely.
Then last week at church, one of the ladies I have worked with in VBS stopped me in the hall and said "You have been on my mind and heart this week, and I have been praying for you." Tears came to my eyes as I knew this was my "Wow God... You Rock!" moment. You see, she didn't marry until later in life and although I knew that about her, I have never talked with her about "waiting." God placed her in my path that night at his perfect time so that the door was opened and boy, did it swing wide open! She is an amazing encouragement to me and her words reflected all my feelings. She and I prayed together, and she is praying each day for me specifically that God will supply all my needs and that in his timing, it will come. It doesn't get much better than that...
Here are a few of my favorite passages that I have been praying over lately as I remain "in waiting" -
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope." Jeremiah 29:11
"Therefore the Lord will wait, that He may be gracious to you." Isaiah 30:18
"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience." James 1:2-3
If you are in the same point in your life, I hope the verses above will speak to you.